How to Dramatically Increase Your Self-Esteem
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How to Dramatically Increase Self-Esteem and Self-Worth as a Man

Man, I remember being 5 years old…and having Dial-Up internet in my house.

That familiar “woooshing” sound when trying to connect to the Internet rings in my head like yesterday.

Twenty-ish years later, that time seems like the Paleolithic era.

Smartphones, watches, all sorts of doo-dads that connect to the Internet effortlessly are now par for the course.

As such, the rate of change has rapidly increased bringing with it a sense of a loss of control. More namely, a loss of self-esteem and self efficacy.

Consider this:

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The Real Secret Behind Increasing Your Productivity and Work Ethic

If you go into a bookstore or even type in “how to be productive” or “books on productivity” on Amazon, you’ll find a ton of resources related to being productive.

This is all well and good, but it doesn’t get at the cause. These books are only effects.

Stuff like sustained focus and the Tower Technique are tactics. They aren’t overall strategies. They aren’t mindsets.

They don’t address the root question most people have on their mind:

“Why am I not able to do what I have to do when I have to do it?”

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Becoming a Creative Force Through Daily Rituals and Creative Confidence
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How “Ordinary” People Can Become Creative Gods Through Daily Rituals

A solid routine fosters a well-worn groove for one’s mental energies and helps stave off the tyranny of moods. – Mason Currey

Our world is crying out for creative solutions to everyday problems.

The workplace and the home are two places we spend the most time…but these are two places where we feel creativity is “out of place”.

Why would this be?

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How to Pull the Plug on Being a Passive Spectator
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Little Results? You’re Being a Spectator. Here’s How to Pull the Plug.

It is becoming easier to be a spectator in life than a participant.

Not only is it becoming easier, but it is also becoming more rewarded as well.

You only need to remember how your social media news feeds were after the 2016 election.

I have never seen so many people become “political analysts”.

Keep in mind that these were people who had no interest in or even knowledge of politics before Election Night.

A good amount of these people probably didn’t even vote.

As the world becomes “sterilized”, this behavior will become even more commonplace. It sounds like it’s no big deal, but trust me:

As Joe Biden said, It’s a big fucking deal.

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Seven Deadly Sins That Annihilate Your Attention, Personal Power, and Happiness
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7 Deadly Sins That Annihilate Your Attention, Personal Power, and Ultimately Your Happiness

Only 31% of Americans characterize themselves as “happy”.

For the most prosperous nation on earth with rising quality of living indexes across the board, that’s a piss poor rating. Why the fuck isn’t everyone happy?

Here’s why: happiness goes where attention flows.

The quality of your attention will determine the joy you get out of life. Period.

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How to Increase Your Time Management With the Tower Technique

Time is the raw material from which you build your life. It’s given to all of us, free of charge.

You cannot buy more of what you have, you can only spend it (or waste it).

There’s a ton of time management systems out there teaching you how to make the most of your time. A lot of them repeat the same things we’ve been told as kids.

  • Reduce interruption
  • Don’t multitask
  • Plan ahead of time
  • “Focus”

You don’t need to be told these things.

You already know what to do to maximize your time. Whether or not you’ll do them…. that’s the real question.

I’m not going to add to the looooooooong list of time management techniques out there. I’ve already made a post about my view on time management.

Instead, I’m going to ask you to think about time management and its various techniques another way.

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Why Your Neighbor Is Killing It and You Aren't
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The Real Reason Why Your Neighbor Is Killing It and You Aren’t

Check this.

Your neighbor lives in a great house. He has an awesome significant other. He takes amazing vacations. He has all the (outward) trappings of a killer life.

Shit. He’s more jacked than you.

He regularly exercises.

He blazes through a metric ton of books.

He even has a better golf swing!

What the hell is going on? Why is he better at you in almost every conceivable way? He doesn’t seem to have one flaw!

You can’t find the reason for his success. You’ve known him for years. He comes from an “average” household. He had an “average” life. He even went to an “average” school.

What???? What’s the difference? You go mad trying to figure it out.

This guy is purely a character I pulled out of my ass, but the reality isn’t that far off.

Most of us know “that guy” who seems to have a kind of Midas Touch, making things he comes into contact with turn to gold. What’s his secret?

Luckily, you don’t have to go far to find the answer. It’s a lot closer than you think. So close that, frankly…it IS what you think with.

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