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5 Major Regrets In Life You Will Have If You Don't Take Action (Now)
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5 Major Regrets Many People Have When They’re Older (and How to Prevent Them)

I want to paint a picture for you.

Imagine living to a grand old age. Maybe 80, maybe 85. The thing is…you’re dying. You know it, everyone around you knows it.

As you lay back on the couch, look at the ceiling, and contemplate your existence – you think back over your life. Some great moments flood in, along with some not-so-great ones.

These not-so-great ones leave you with a bitter taste in your mouth.

You wonder what happened to that cutie you met in college.

You wonder what would have happened if you moved overseas when you had the chance.

You wonder what could have been.

You become obsessed with these thoughts.

A bleak sadness washes over you. Mainly because you know that what’s done is done and your time on this Earth is slowly coming to a close.

Millions of people have those thoughts and regrets in life on a daily basis…and they’re not even anywhere close to dying.

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Shadow Work: How to Rapidly Unlock Your Unconscious Mind
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Shadow Work: How to Rapidly Transcend to Your Greatest Self

We live in a world of duality.

Here and there. Hot and cold. Yin and yang. Light and dark. All opposites.

Because of this duality, there are two sides to everything, with a spectrum in between.

One of the most important types of duality in our world has to do with personality. Namely, our shadow selves.

You may consider yourself a “good person”. After you read this article, you may want to give more serious thought to that.

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Why We Fall: 10 Reasons Why You Will Fail In 2018
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Why We Fall: 10 Reasons Why You Will Fail Personal Development In 2018

If you’re reading this, then you’ve got New Year goals and a desire for personal development.

This is the year when you read those books.

This is the year when you get in shape and hit the gym religiously.

This is the year when you start that business.

This is the year when you donate to charity.

This is just the year to shine, period.

Or so you think. Chances are this year will be just like the last one (with a few alterations).

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Conquer Social Anxiety
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Conquer Social Anxiety with These 5 Powerful Methods

If you struggle with social anxiety or anxiety in general, you should know one thing:

You’re definitely not alone.

Social anxiety is extremely common. 15 million adults in America have social anxiety, and those are the ones that report it. Social anxiety in men is even more under-reported, because of stigma surrounding mental health issues (and the need to remain macho).

The socially anxious introvert is what we typically bring to mind when the words “social anxiety” are mentioned. But it doesn’t just affect introverts.

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How to Dramatically Increase Your Self-Esteem
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How to Dramatically Increase Self-Esteem and Self-Worth as a Man

Man, I remember being 5 years old…and having Dial-Up internet in my house.

That familiar “woooshing” sound when trying to connect to the Internet rings in my head like yesterday.

Twenty-ish years later, that time seems like the Paleolithic era.

Smartphones, watches, all sorts of doo-dads that connect to the Internet effortlessly are now par for the course.

As such, the rate of change has rapidly increased bringing with it a sense of a loss of control. More namely, a loss of self-esteem and self efficacy.

Consider this:

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How to Pull the Plug on Being a Passive Spectator
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Little Results? You’re Being a Spectator. Here’s How to Pull the Plug.

It is becoming easier to be a spectator in life than a participant.

Not only is it becoming easier, but it is also becoming more rewarded as well.

You only need to remember how your social media news feeds were after the 2016 election.

I have never seen so many people become “political analysts”.

Keep in mind that these were people who had no interest in or even knowledge of politics before Election Night.

A good amount of these people probably didn’t even vote.

As the world becomes “sterilized”, this behavior will become even more commonplace. It sounds like it’s no big deal, but trust me:

As Joe Biden said, It’s a big fucking deal.

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Seven Deadly Sins That Annihilate Your Attention, Personal Power, and Happiness
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7 Deadly Sins That Annihilate Your Attention, Personal Power, and Ultimately Your Happiness

Only 31% of Americans characterize themselves as “happy”.

For the most prosperous nation on earth with rising quality of living indexes across the board, that’s a piss poor rating. Why the fuck isn’t everyone happy?

Here’s why: happiness goes where attention flows.

The quality of your attention will determine the joy you get out of life. Period.

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